Pre-Conference Session 4 / How to set boundaries

I had Coach Shef (for more on him go HERE ) two times today and I could not have loved it any more. This guy is a fantastic communicat...



I had Coach Shef (for more on him go HERE) two times today and I could not have loved it any more. This guy is a fantastic communicator and a great leader. He put together this talk on boundaries in such a way that everyone in the room could take something from it!

Here are my notes from the session

Our tension in ministry: There are more high priority items then there is time to do them

Boundaries help us know who we are so we know when you are being who you aren't
- Boundaries give us clarity
- Boundaries help us say yes and say no
- Boundaries help us identify when to confront and when to let it go!!

Boundaries are frightening to us
- Fear of a loss of love
- Fear of wrath
- Fear of hurting someone.

Boundaries really are a stewardship issue
- Understanding that it is not your ministry but that you have been given the responsibility of leading for a time.

Learn to work out your no muscle.
            - Boundaries demand that you say no to GOOD things
- Boundaries help you develop healthy expectations for those around you.
- Boundaries will ultimately keep you healthy.

My addicition doesnt define me. Its a disease that I live with, but i will always be more than just an addiction. I fight every day to put the pieces back together. Thank you for taking part in my journey. You are not alone!

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