No But. . . .'s

How often do you throw an idea out there and hear the words “yeah but . . . . “ You fill in the rest. It can be so discouraging to sit i...


How often do you throw an idea out there and hear the words “yeah but . . . . “ You fill in the rest. It can be so discouraging to sit in a room full of leaders and have ideas to put out on the table and all you hear is “but. . . . “ It can be so discouraging to the creativity in the room and the flow of more good thoughts.

I have to take a minute and brag on my team at oneChurch.tv. We have a family ministry Leadership team that consists of the directors or key leaders from each area under Family Ministry! I love their hearts when there are new ideas being thrown out and processed through. I very rarely hear but. . .  I often hear and. . .  I have a group of passionate people who love their area and see the overall big picture of the organization. Their goal is not to point out reasons why it cannot work out so they can feel valued, but to figure out how to make it happen and make it better for overall good of the organization. I have the flip side of a problem usually. I have to stop all the ands before we end up spending the entire budget. Encourage dreaming on your team. And’s do that but. . . .’s usually don’t.

One of my favorite people in the world to be around is a guy who says and. . . . constantly. He is one of the best thinkers I know and he never discourages thoughts, but is always trying to make them better and figure out how we can make them happen. oneChurch.tv encourages this as a whole and that filters down to everyone.

There are times when there has to be a but. Sometimes an idea just cannot happen, but if we move out of the way we may be shocked how often those problems we thought were so big could be overcome.

Be someone who keeps the dialogue going about an idea. Even if it isn’t your favorite idea you have ever heard. You owe it to your team to see where it goes. As a leader if you are on of the main people saying “but. . . .” you will quickly discourage your team from engaging with you! Encourage you team to keep thinking and building on their ideas. Every good idea started somewhere. Let more you welcome ideas the more freedom will be felt to give them.

Do you encourage your team to use and. . . .  ? 

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